Jan
25
Avoiding Self Sabotage
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I have never been contained except I made the prison
-Mary Evans
Sometimes when we try to make significant changes in our lives, we find ourselves drifting back to our old behaviors time and time again. This can be extremely baffling. We have a goal that we know we want to achieve, but for some reason, we keep sabotaging our plans. It’s as if there’s a force [...]
Sep
30
Take Charge of Your Life
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You must take personal responsibility. You cannot change the circumstances, the seasons, or the wind, but you can change yourself. That is something you have charge of.
-Jim Rohn
The world always changes. Our lives change with it. How did your life get to where it is today? How will it change in the future? You can decide how.
Nov
2
How to be an Inspired Voter
Filed Under Attitude, Beliefs, Choice, How To, Peace and Contentment, Perspective, Relationships | Leave a Comment
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This is not a political post nor an endorsement. Instead, I am sharing ideas on how to remain inspired and spiritual at a time when passions and negativity rule the discourse around us.
Here are five ideas on how to be inspired voters:
1. Practice Tolerance
The core of our political stance lies in our values and beliefs. [...]
Jul
7
Making Painful Decisions
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And the day came when the risk to remain tight in a bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom.
-Anais Nin
Sometimes change can be so difficult that we find ourselves doubled over in pain. Tears flow uncontrollably, and the pain is so intense that we just want to wake up from the nightmare we are experiencing and find that life is the same as it was before things changed.
These moments are especially challenging when the [...]
Jan
22
How Kindness Eliminates Deprivation
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There is only one real deprivation... and that is not to be able to give one's gifts to those one loves most.
-May Sarton
My son, Tristen, is at an age where he uses the phrase, “I want” frequently. At the same time, he’s also learning to share and do nice things for people.
Unlike most grownups, toddlers express their emotions openly. It is much easier to tell what they are feeling inside. Because of this, I can clearly see [...]
Dec
21
Holiday Inspiration
Filed Under Choice, Forgiveness, Kindness, Relationships | Leave a Comment
Christmas is the gentlest, loveliest festival of the revolving year - and yet, for all that, when it speaks, its voice has strong authority.
-W.J. Cameron
At Christmas time, we all seem to take on bi-polar personalities. We find ourselves filled with passion and thrusting from extreme joy and excitement to extreme frustration and fear. Memories from the past bring warm nostalgic feelings and mournful sorrow. The gift giving tradition fills us with abundance, joy, apprehension and debt. Expectations are high, [...]
Dec
11
Clean Your Plate
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To insure good health: eat lightly, breathe deeply, live moderately, cultivate cheerfulness, and maintain an interest in life.
-William Londen
This is the second post in a series expanding on 20 Things I Learned from My Toddler.
Always clean your plate, but don’t overeat. When you are full, dump the rest of the food on the table and spread it around.
Many of us were taught as children that we should always clean our plates. In doing [...]




