This post is the fifth in a series on making peace with our bodies. And, the introduction of a new series on procrastination.
In 1990, I bought a book on procrastination: The Now Habit. I haven’t gotten around to reading it yet, but I read the first chapter in which I learned something that changed the way I look at procrastination.
Procrastination is a mechanism for coping with the anxiety associated with starting or completing any task or decision.
-Neil Fiore, PhD.
The Now Habit: A Strategic Program for Overcoming Procrastination and Enjoying Guilt-Free Play
Procrastination is not about being a lazy, unmotivated person.
First thing we need to do to get past procrastination is to stop beating ourselves up with the ‘L’ word: lazy. Procrastination is not a sign of laziness. In fact, it is often quite the opposite. Those of us who struggle most with procrastination are perfectionists. Procrastination and perfectionism go hand in hand.
If you are hoping to lose 30% of your body weight in a short period of time, change from a diet of packaged foods to an all natural vegan diet, go from no physical activity to running a marathon in 3 months, you may be overwhelming yourself into procrastination.
5 Tips for Avoiding Procrastination
- Accept failure and mistakes. Failure and mistakes are essential ingredients in a rich, fulfilled and enlightened life. They are great teachers and stepping stones to success. Expectation of perfect success is the main ingredient in procrastination. See 8 Signs that You Are Not Failing Enough.
- Focus on what you want. When we procrastinate, we are telling ourselves we have to do something we don’t want to do. If we focus on what we want instead of what we’re supposed to do, we find motivation. Say, “I want to exercise today because I enjoy it, it makes me feel good and gives me a healthy, gorgeous and energetic body and mind.” See What Do You Want?
- Focus on the beginning instead of the end. It is easier to get things started than to think about finishing them. It is less overwhelming and helps us avoid thinking about completion deadlines.
- Reward yourself. Set small, concrete, realistic goals that can be reached quickly and reward yourself when completed. All work and no play makes life unfulfilling and unproductive.
- Stop Should-ing on yourself. Should-ing leads to an inability to enjoy work and leisure time. Avoid the word should at all costs. Either you choose to do something or you don’t. It’s your life and you’re free to make choices and live with whatever consequences you choose. Do what you want to do to achieve the result you want.
Making Peace with Our Bodies
This is the fifth and final article in a series about making peace with our bodies. If you missed any of the other articles in this series, click below to continue reading:
- Part 1: Motivation for Physical Self Care
- Part 2: Obstacles to Maintaining Physical Health
- Part 3: Overcoming Exceptions that Kill
- Part 4: Overcoming Discouragement
- Part 5: Overcoming Procrastination (currently reading)